How to Attract a Taurus Goddess.

Water, solitude, sunshine, and something pink and soft=my recipe for peace and happiness.

On behalf of my Taurus sister goddesses, I am dedicating this post to all the titans out there who have not had much luck in attracting and keeping a Taurus goddess in a romantic relationship. The good news is that there is hope. We just have to share with you a few simple secrets that you can try out. Honestly, we are what you see is what you get goddesses. Just keep reading this post and you will know how. Soon you will be the titan that your Taurus goddess adores and you can thank me with flowers and chocolates later. (smiles)

To understand a Taurus goddess, you must first know that she is a fixed earth sign, and she is ruled by Venus, the goddess of love, beauty, and sensuality. Born during the most beautiful season of the year, between April 20 and May 20, she is earthy, loving, sensual, passionate, grounded, loyal, nurturing, dependable, practical, persistent, independent, creative, soulful, and deeply a romantic at heart.  She can also be very determined and stubborn if she truly believes in something. Once her mind is made up, it is often difficult to convince her to change it, especially when she has decided she is done with you. There is no turning back and it will take a whole lot of convincing to win her back or earn her trust again.

The Taurus goddess loves all things beautiful and pleasing to the senses. That includes people and surroundings as well. She is the most sensual sign in the zodiac. So anything that brings beauty, love, comfort, luxury, and of quality to her life will catch her attention. Even though she is modern and forward thinking, she still appreciates old fashion courtship and chivalry from the titans in her life. So little thoughtful actions such as opening the door for her, walking her to the car, picking her up for a date and then calling or sending her a note after to say thank you and to make sure she is home safely mean more to her than any expensive gifts that you can ever buy.

Fashion stylist and DJ Heather Femia modeling our latest Mykonos Collection of dresses…A true Taurus she is!

The Taurus goddess is ultra-feminine and is quite popular with the opposite sex. But because she exudes so much love and light that even children and animals are also drawn to her powerful essence. If you are interested in a Taurus goddess, then you must stand out from the rest of the men that are after her. Read on below and find out how. This is just my personal opinion only, but I know it will help you attract and keep any goddess in your life forever and not just Tauruses! (Smiles)

Masculinity: No matter what….never give your alpha-maleness and masculine-titan-power away! But make sure that when in private, you are capable of being open, sensitive and connect with her on an emotional level. And when you are polished and intelligent and know handy tasks to assist her, then she will be yours!

Chivalry: One of the things I am most bothered by is when a titan does not have polished manners. I personally have experienced this as well as seen it. The goddess must always walk on the protected side of the street, does not matter left or right in my opinion. When she offers to pay or to drive, you should not let her do so. She will automatically put you in the friend zone. Why? Because you will fall into the “too nice” “too sweet” and then she would never feel safe with you. A Taurus goddess wants a titan who respects and adores her, but who can lead the way and know how to take charge! Most importantly, never use profanity or unpleasant language around her. You just don’t do that ever!

Honesty: Game playing and secrets are not appealing to a Taurus goddess. Be open, be honest, and be real. She loves it!

Confidence: You can be confident and fearless without being arrogant. Speaking your mind when something bothers you is quite attractive. That also includes knowing what you want and saying no without guilt is another sexy manly trait. Taking action to achieve a goal is even hotter!

Generosity: No goddess wants to be with a cheap and calculating titan. And no matter how many times she offers, do not ever let her pay for you in public! You will for sure end up in the forever friend zone. (Ex. if you are out with a goddess and her girlfriends, you must take care of all of them, not just her!) This may be a cultural thing and many of you may disagree with me. But the way I was brought up is that the titan always pays. It does not matter if he is a family member, friend, or business associate young or old, he pays when out in public with a female. It makes him look good, but it also shows that he respects the female he is with.

Kindness: It is not about how kind you are to the goddess you are with, but also how you treat those around you, and that includes your family, your friends, your co-workers, children, plants and animals!

Intelligence: Need I say more? You have to be intelligent to keep a Taurus goddess interested in you!

Security: A Taurus goddess is very capable of taking care of herself financially, but she likes to be pampered and protected. Knowing that you are good with finances and that you are successful in your work makes her feel comforted knowing that the future with you will be provided for should she decide to be a sexy stay at home domesticated goddess keeping everything at home tidy, comfortable, and beautiful for you and cooking you 5-star gourmet delicious meals!

Conversations: A titan who can engage in conversations of all sorts and if he is a good listener, WOW!

Model-Yogi-Healer-Taurus goddess soulmate, Christina will be back from Mykonos this Fall leading yoga and meditation sessions at my sanctuary.

Grooming: It is very attractive when a titan takes care of his appearance and health. But remember, we would not want you to spend more time in front of the mirror than we do. Keep your style powerful, polished, refined, yet relaxed depending on the occasion. But, please keep those cartoony-colorful ties, underpants, and happy socks out of her sight. They are not sexy and will turn her off forever!

Family: The Taurus goddess loves her family and is attached to them. So you must love her family as well as be close to yours.

Privacy: Taurus goddesses love our quiet intimate quality time with you. We don’t need to share you with the world. We like to know that you are ours and ours only. Others do not need to know the intimate details of our relationship.

Romance: This is almost as important as chivalry. Little acts of kindness, soft unexpected sensual touches, and simple surprises like hand-picked flowers or a voicemail or text in the middle of the day to say you miss her or thinking of her are very romantic and will make her heart melt with pleasure.

Bedroom Passion: This is last, but probably one of the most important if you want a Taurus goddess to be a forever loyal lover to you. She is sensual and loves sexual pleasure. She likes it slow, passionate, tender and intimate, yet rough and intense. She likes it real and natural. Using toys and funny looking objects will not turn her on. You must seduce, entice, and tease her with your natural masculine energy. Take the time to feel every minute of what you are experiencing with her, be present and in the moment. Be spontaneous, adventurous, go with the flow, let your heart rule when making love to her. A Taurus goddess loves a titan who knows how to take charge in the bedroom as well as outside of the bedroom. What is even sexier is when you need guidance on how to bring her pleasure, and you are not afraid to ask her to show you!

We love white and cotton sheets! Comfort luxury for sure!

Keep the bedroom simple and clean. White and cotton are sexy!

If you are currently dating or married to a Taurus goddess, consider yourself very blessed!

There is one more thing that you should know. It takes a lot to get a Taurus goddess upset because she is ruled by Venus and is naturally loving and prefers peace over war by nature. She is patient and can tolerate a lot. But if you disrespect her, we will be worse than fire, windstorm and thunder all together. She will leave you forever and never look back. She is a female bull! 🙂

 

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Top 5 Secrets To A Great Relationship

When it comes to relationships, whether personal or business, why is it that some relationships are better than others?  Strong, quality, and long-lasting relationships take time and effort to develop.  I cannot speak for everyone else, but what I can share with you are my personal and professional experiences and observations. There are so many aspects involved in having and building a great relationship, but to keep it simple and real, here are my top 5:

COMMUNICATION – This is the top on my list.  Everything we do in our everyday life requires communication of some sort, and every aspect of that requires verbal communication.  When there are money problems in a relationship, it takes communication to resolve it.  When there is cheating in a relationship, it takes communication to resolve it. When a company is in trouble, it takes communication to find out the root of the problem in order to plan, execute, and resolve the issue.  You get the point!  What I learned from Steven Gaffney is that “it is not what you say, but it is what you don’t say” that can cause a lot of misunderstandings, stress, and – especially in business – loss of time, money, productivity, and more.  When you do not get that unsaid said, people will make assumptions based on what they know and take action on those assumptions.

RESPECT – This is so important. In romantic relationships, it means acknowledging and accepting your partner as his or her own being.  You must embrace who they really are as individuals: their thoughts, beliefs, values, vulnerabilities, and all that may be very different from you. By respecting them, you agree not to make judgments, give opinions, or invalidate and belittle them in any way.  This does not mean that you have to agree with them on everything, but it does mean that you need to recognize that those are the traits that make them who they are.  I know this by being an Asian American who was raised with a very strong Vietnamese influence.  In our culture, I think respect probably ranks much higher than education, love, or any other.  When the respect is no longer there in a relationship, it is very difficult to rekindle the trust and spark.  Have you heard about the term “losing face”?  Then you know what I mean!  Most importantly, when you have respect for yourself, you will have respect for others and in return, they will have respect for you.

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A Special advice to my male readers:  When you treat a woman with respect in a romantic relationship, it is healthy for her emotional well-being, her sense of worth, her self-esteem, and it fulfills her need for emotional security. That is what most women want – well, at least from my perspective – and when you can give that to a woman, you give her the world.  The result is a loving, nurturing, dedicated, and faithful woman.  Also when respect is there, resolving conflicts will be much easier as well.

HONESTY – This to me is equally important as respect and communication.  There is a lot of talk about being honest in a relationship, but how many of us are really honest with ourselves and with the relationships that we value?  In order to build trust and connectedness in any relationship, you have to be honest, open, and upfront.  What this means is being transparent and bringing up issues that bother us when they arise rather than keeping them inside and stewing over them, expecting the others to read our mind.  Again, one of Steven Gaffney’s famous quotes applies: “time deepens wounds and deepens problems.”  So no matter what, never go to bed angry or leave office upset with your boss or a colleague.  Bring it up, get it out on the table, and be upfront about what is upsetting you.  Don’t let fear, anger, resentment, or excuses hold you back from doing so.

APPRECIATION – “Thank you.” How often do your employers, employees or co-workers hear those words?  Many work extra hours, often for no additional money or perks, and often without the benefit of hearing someone say “thank you.”  Why do they do it?  Because, like you, they want to make a difference in their jobs, and they want to contribute.  Everyone wants to feel appreciated and that they really matter.  In fact, appreciation is so powerful that it affects the bottom line.  People who feel valued and appreciated are more likely to remain in their jobs, which makes appreciation a key factor in employee retention.  Furthermore, sincere expressions of appreciation open the lines of communication and improve teamwork.  (For more on appreciation, email info@stevengaffney.com)

In romantic relationships, appreciation does not have to be any big elaborate thing.  It could simply be appreciating that your wife or girlfriend is cooking you dinner, giving you a backrub, watching a sports game with you (even though you know she is not a big fan!).  Or it could be appreciating your husband/boyfriend for taking out the trash, doing the dishes, opening the door for you, or simply just folding your laundry even though he did not have to.   Make it a habit to give appreciation often to the special people in your life.

COMMITMENT – Lastly, and one of my favorites, commitment is needed in order to build a quality and meaningful relationship full of trust.   In business, when you make a commitment to serve a client and produce the mutually agreed outcome and desired results for them, it means that you go above and beyond to deliver that service.   It means that whatever the job you were hired for, you have to commit to making it strong and successful with determination and dependability.  In a romantic relationship, it means devotion, dedication, and loyalty.  Which means if you are having issues and challenges, you must not walk away just yet.  If the relationship is important to you, you must put all your energy and effort into resolving these issues, working them out until you absolutely can do it no more.  Then if you do walk away, you can look back and say “I have tried everything I possibly could.”  But make sure to be realistic and true to yourself along the way.  I have heard way too many real life stories and experiences from people who say they held on to their relationships for 10-20 years, hoping that one day a miracle will happen.  Sometimes you have to treat your personal life like a professional project, set a goal with actions and deadlines…get it?

That is it for now.  Are you already applying these five secrets to your relationships?  If so, then you deserve a huge congratulations!  If not,  what is missing?  Why not make a commitment to apply one  of these right now?  Today!  In your life!!!  Share with me your challenges and successes.  I am a student of life learning and I learn by your sharing with me.  Next week, I will share with you my love for travel.  Let’s go to Vietnam, my love, my home country, the place I was given birth in.

A note about the photo in this post: I took this photo at a store in Old Town Alexandria called The Hour.  I wanted to buy it but was told that it is not for sale because the owner likes it, so they let me take a photo instead.  I highly recommend visiting this store if you are in the Washington DC area next time to check out their vintage cocktail vibe!  Very cool!