Is Your Bedroom Serving Its Purpose?

I love taking time getting ready in my bedroom. Lace is always a part of my wardrobe.

I don’t know about you, but my bedroom is my most important and most sacred space in my home. It is my sanctuary and my go to space to de-stress, relax, and feel feminine and sensual, especially since the Coronavirus disease officially began.

My bedroom is where I go to disconnect from the chaotic life outside my home. It is my private getaway for restoration and rejuvenation of my mind, body, and spirit and only the blessed and pure souls with hearts of gold like children and animals are welcomed. 🙂

You are probably wondering what about the titan lover? Well, I will leave that up to your imagination (wink)

Since this not so pleasant disease began, married couples are spending more time at home together and let’s just say, not all of their bedroom activities have been fun and exciting. I know so because I hear it from friends and clients and also some of you have been messaging me through Social Media, emails, and calls asking for goddess guidance. That is why I think perhaps the Feng Shui in the bedroom could be off and needs some energy cleansing to spice things up in the relationship. So below are my three questions for you to think about, even if you are currently in a relationship with yourself. (smiles)

  1. Does your bedroom inspire good sleep, peace, calm and relaxation?
  2. Does your bedroom spark feelings of desire, fun, and sensual pleasures within you and/or with your romantic other?
  3. Does your bedroom create the ambiance where sacred lovemaking and great sex can take place with yourself or with your lover?

If you have answered “No” to one or all of the above, then your bedroom life needs help and it’s time to give it a makeover and there is no better time than now. So no excuses, let’s get started and keep me posted along the way or contact me if you need support on what to do and where to begin. Have fun and I am sure for some of you, it may be an emotional roller coaster ride during the process.

My bedroom is currently a nightly dance Studio right now teaching women how to awaken their inner Goddesses for themselves and their lovers.

8 Reasons Why You Are Not Where You Want to Be.

My best friend and owner of Shiny Carpet Cleaning is the perfect example of Confidence, Discipline and Action.

Ever wonder why your life is not where you want it to be? Are you frustrated because you have worked so hard and yet, there is nothing to show for it? Well, it all begins with you.

In my opinion, having passion and knowing what you want for your life play crucial roles in helping you to get there. But perhaps there are some things that you are currently lacking that may be preventing you from reaching your fullest potential and living your best life. I am speaking from my very own personal experience. I have had to learn some very hard lessons along the way.

Below are just some of my thoughts on why you still are not where you want to be in your life:

1. Lack of Planning

You can see your happy and successful future so clearly, but what is missing is a plan on how you will get there. What are you waiting for? Start planning! No one will do that for you. Let’s get to work and implement those plans!

2. Lack of Self Confidence

How can anyone believe in you if you don’t believe in yourself? Your lack of self confidence will prevent you from reaching your goals because fear takes over and you are entertaining it. Don’t allow fear to get in the way.

3. Lack of Focus

Focusing on the wrong things can be unproductive and a time waster. Do you know the top 3 priorities in your life? Write those down and keep them somewhere that you see regularly to keep you on track. If anything or anyone get in the way of those priorities, drop them.

4. Lack of Discipline

We are not born disciplined. To me this is a learned behavior. When we lack discipline, we lack initiative and we lack inner strength. Being a disciplined person takes effort, but it also requires you to train your mind and tell yourself that you are a disciplined person.

5. Lack of guidance and support

You are who you surround yourself with. Who are the people closest to you? Who are the top 5 people you spend most of your time with? Are they on the same life path and purpose as you? I have many friends after 20 years, still struggling in the same life’s challenges. It’s because they surround themselves with people who do not share their path of success and happiness. You are a product of your environment and surroundings. Surround yourself with people who will guide and support your path to reaching your fullest potential and who challenges you to live your best life!

6. Lack of Accountability

When you take responsibility for your life, it puts you at choice. Choose to be in the driver seat instead of just going with the flow or follow along. If you don’t hold yourself accountable, then who will? Drive your life and get to the destination of your dreams! ” It is not what we only do, but also what we do not do, for which we are accountable.” ~John Baptiste Moliere

7. Lack of Faith

How can your dreams come true if you don’t believe that they will? Faith helps you to overcome obstacles that get in the way of success. When we have faith, everything and anything are possible.

8. Lack of Action

This to me is the most important above all else. Without action, there is no result and your dreams cannot come into reality. Talk is cheap without action to follow. Now is the time to start. Stop talking about what you will do and start doing it.