Forties, Fun, Fearless and Fashionably Fabulous – Part 3

I am at my best by the ocean, in pink, and under the sunset!

In my goddess dictionary, an “F” word has nothing to do with profanity. For me, the “F word” stands not only for FREEDOM, but also for a variety of other words which perfectly describe the modern day goddess. As a lover of languages and beautiful speech, here are my 6 favorite “F” words which perfectly depict where I am in my life and how powerful and confident I feel. 

1.       Free – My 4th decade of life moved me suddenly into total confidence to express myself fully without doubt, without worry of others’ opinions, and without constraints. Most importantly, free from guilt, shame and blame! I have never felt so powerful, so honest and so open with my inner truth, and so beautiful in my own light.

2.       Fearless – As I grow older and wiser, I am more brave.  I honestly fear nothing and care very little about what others think of me. I love challenges even more and face adversity as lessons that I have to go through and deal with in order to grow and to learn. After all, life is a journey of learning, living, and loving with all your heart and soul without fear, don’t you think?

3.       Fun –  When I was younger, no one told me that the forties stage was going to be the best decade ever! Now that I am experiencing this wonderful time, I cannot wait to get to the next decade! That just means I am ready for more knowledge, more experiences, more fun, and more wisdom! Because of my total respect for my own freedom and my time, I can guiltlessly choose to do only what I love and be with only those I love who make my life fun and full of surprises. For example, if I feel like hopping on a plane and traveling to a deserted island for some solitude to recharge, I can do so because I choose to and it makes me happy, just like playing volleyball in the park with my favorite goddess and titan at midnight if it so pleases me.

4.       Fabulous – How fabulous is it to be in my forties? I have so much intense inner strength and divine power inside that I naturally attract wonderful and fabulous people and energy everywhere I go without much effort. 

5.       Fashionable – As a fashion designer, taste maker, and lover of sensuality, my own style and how I express myself have changed. How I dress today really defines how I feel deep down inside: Feminine, free, sensual, confident, and spiritually awakened. Fashion is not about expensive clothes and designer labels or even overdoing it. It simply is about celebrating your own personal style and natural beauty while keeping it timeless, unique, feminine, and with understated sex appeal. And less is always more in my “tu-anh LOVE” dictionary.  When it comes to fashion, a goddess should keep it feminine and tasteful and wear natural fabrics that allow the body to breathe and be free to move with ease. When we look good and feel good, we bring joy to those around us and that is oh so fashionably forties and fab!

Boating fun with my fashionista goddess fans on the Potomac.

And Lastly, Feminine is #6 on my list of favorite “F” words. In my teenage years, my body grew up much faster than I did. For a period of time, I always felt shy about my “Marilyn Monroe” figure and used to conceal my voluptuousness with loose-fitting clothes. Flash forward to my twenties, thirties, and now forties, I have learned to embrace my femininity and accept my womanly figure that is not so typical of an Asian female. Femininity is a part of who I am and how God has created me. This is the goddess essence that has emerged powerfully in my forties that I hope to inspire all modern day women to own and embrace regardless of their age.

I love how animals are naturally drawn to me, especially island cats!

I certainly have not experienced my 50’s and 60’s yet. But all I can say is “WOW” to my forties decade. Life can’t get better than this! I know who I am, what I want, and that includes what I do not want. I no longer make my life’s decisions based on needs, but instead, they are based on what I choose and what I desire.  How about you? What is a favorite decade of your life?

I do not need someone to buy me flowers and make me happy.

 

 

Jeans and Jazz on the Potomac

 

Clear blue sky and wonderful view of the Lincoln Memorial.

I had so much fun this past Sunday evening spending quality time with some of my favorite goddesses and fans dancing the night away on the Potomac at Jeans and Jazz – On the Water benefiting We Will Survive Cancer. The music was good to dance to, the view was nice to look at, and the sunset was beautiful! Oh and the Belly Dancer,  Asala El-Masri, was gorgeous and seductive!

With my busy schedule and so many causes in Washington DC Area, I can’t give all my time away without making time for me. So I usually am selective about what events to attend and support. Jeans and Jazz on the Water will take place again next Summer and I hope to have you join me there.

Below are some photos from the event in case you are interested.

Gorgeous Persian Goddess Karen Sami is the heart behind this fun event with the cute bartenders!

I love these two goddesses! Gayela, on the right is the Founder of We Will Survive Cancer!

Karen, the goddess hostess loving life along with some of our fans.

It’s not a goddess photo unless a titan sneaks in.

Gorgeous goddess bombshells!

The Iphone 7plus is not so bad for night time.

Secrets of the Fashionably Fabulous Mothers

Fashionista DJ Mother Goddess Heather Femia in our Frida Kahlo wrap, rejuvenating in Tulum, Mexico.

The month of May brings with it so many feminine celebrations: the deliciously fluffy peony blossoms from my goddess garden showing off their rich colors and beautiful fragrance; the pretty sunshine and warming weather that awakens our dead winter spirit; and, of course, my birthday, International Goddess Day, and Mother’s Day.

Mothers are the ultimate example of unconditional love, sacrifice, selflessness, kindness, compassion, and the feminine divine. They often are in a constant state of loving, nurturing, protecting, raising, feeding, embracing, and cherishing their children, their husbands, their parents, their pets, their plants, and all the things that they consider to be their treasures.  What I have noticed in the mothers around me is that they never call in sick or postpone their responsibilities with their children and family. With today’s fast-paced world of independent working mothers, they really do it all!

So what about those mothers we see who seem to always look fashionably polished and impeccable, who move with such confidence and alluring femininity, who seem to be forever smiling, positive and happy regardless of the the craziness and chaos surrounding them? How do they do it? How can they possibly look so good, be so cheerful, and never seem to run out of energy? Well, in my opinion, when a mother merges herself with God and the goddess within, the power that takes over is limitless and everlasting.  The Goddess-Mothers that I respect and value have boundless motivational forces and inner strength. After years of being around them, I have learned their simple little secrets and rituals that keep them looking so young and vibrant…not to mention, sexy and sensual!

As busy as these modern day fashionista mothers are, they do a perfect job of staying in touch with their feminine selves and understand how vital it is to keep themselves feeling happy and rejuvenated. In order for the divine goddess power to flow freely throughout these gorgeous hotties, they have stayed true to their dedicated healthy rituals that are key to maintaining their vitality and youthful beauty.

So would you like to know a few of their little secrets for looking and feeling so fab? Here are some of my favorites, which many of my favorite mothers have shared with me:

  1. Daily beauty regimen, morning and night (#1 on my list)
  2. Yoga practice
  3. Weekly goddess baths (#2 on my list)
  4. Exercise
  5. Massages and/or spa and salon visits
  6. Shopping
  7. Dancing (#4 on my list)
  8. Goddess night out with their girlfriends
  9. Solitude (#3 on my list)
  10. Eating clean (Absolute must!)
  11. Self love and care, including date nights and a healthy sex life with their titan husbands (SUPER IMPORTANT!)

Happy Mother’s Day to all of my beautiful goddesses, including my mother and sisters! Enjoy the celebration of you: your beauty, your love, your light, your divine feminine power, your big loving hearts, and, most importantly, thank you for existing! I hope you enjoy the photos below of a few of my favorite mother goddesses and wives!

Style goddess mother Maria finds balance and calmness in her yoga practice. Here is a photo I took at our Caribbean Awakened retreat this past February.

The Flawlessly Fab Monica Favela, my soulmate in business!

The exotic Latin goddess mother Jessica Soto, who is also my Nini Love’s doctor!

My gorgeous, super mother and wife goddess-sister and her beautiful daughters in our Italian Collection silk dress and crystal necklace.

Another gorgeous, super mother-goddess younger sister of mine and her precious china doll daughter having fun shopping in our sanctuary.

I love this hot and sensual photo of Maria in my red bathing suit at our Winter Goddess Retreat in the Dominican Republic. Maria is the ultimate example of the perfect wife and mother and woman. She has three beautiful children and look at her fabulous body!!!!