How to Attract a Taurus Goddess.

Water, solitude, sunshine, and something pink and soft=my recipe for peace and happiness.

On behalf of my Taurus sister goddesses, I am dedicating this post to all the titans out there who have not had much luck in attracting and keeping a Taurus goddess in a romantic relationship. The good news is that there is hope. We just have to share with you a few simple secrets that you can try out. Honestly, we are what you see is what you get goddesses. Just keep reading this post and you will know how. Soon you will be the titan that your Taurus goddess adores and you can thank me with flowers and chocolates later. (smiles)

To understand a Taurus goddess, you must first know that she is a fixed earth sign, and she is ruled by Venus, the goddess of love, beauty, and sensuality. Born during the most beautiful season of the year, between April 20 and May 20, she is earthy, loving, sensual, passionate, grounded, loyal, nurturing, dependable, practical, persistent, independent, creative, soulful, and deeply a romantic at heart.  She can also be very determined and stubborn if she truly believes in something. Once her mind is made up, it is often difficult to convince her to change it, especially when she has decided she is done with you. There is no turning back and it will take a whole lot of convincing to win her back or earn her trust again.

The Taurus goddess loves all things beautiful and pleasing to the senses. That includes people and surroundings as well. She is the most sensual sign in the zodiac. So anything that brings beauty, love, comfort, luxury, and of quality to her life will catch her attention. Even though she is modern and forward thinking, she still appreciates old fashion courtship and chivalry from the titans in her life. So little thoughtful actions such as opening the door for her, walking her to the car, picking her up for a date and then calling or sending her a note after to say thank you and to make sure she is home safely mean more to her than any expensive gifts that you can ever buy.

Fashion stylist and DJ Heather Femia modeling our latest Mykonos Collection of dresses…A true Taurus she is!

The Taurus goddess is ultra-feminine and is quite popular with the opposite sex. But because she exudes so much love and light that even children and animals are also drawn to her powerful essence. If you are interested in a Taurus goddess, then you must stand out from the rest of the men that are after her. Read on below and find out how. This is just my personal opinion only, but I know it will help you attract and keep any goddess in your life forever and not just Tauruses! (Smiles)

Masculinity: No matter what….never give your alpha-maleness and masculine-titan-power away! But make sure that when in private, you are capable of being open, sensitive and connect with her on an emotional level. And when you are polished and intelligent and know handy tasks to assist her, then she will be yours!

Chivalry: One of the things I am most bothered by is when a titan does not have polished manners. I personally have experienced this as well as seen it. The goddess must always walk on the protected side of the street, does not matter left or right in my opinion. When she offers to pay or to drive, you should not let her do so. She will automatically put you in the friend zone. Why? Because you will fall into the “too nice” “too sweet” and then she would never feel safe with you. A Taurus goddess wants a titan who respects and adores her, but who can lead the way and know how to take charge! Most importantly, never use profanity or unpleasant language around her. You just don’t do that ever!

Honesty: Game playing and secrets are not appealing to a Taurus goddess. Be open, be honest, and be real. She loves it!

Confidence: You can be confident and fearless without being arrogant. Speaking your mind when something bothers you is quite attractive. That also includes knowing what you want and saying no without guilt is another sexy manly trait. Taking action to achieve a goal is even hotter!

Generosity: No goddess wants to be with a cheap and calculating titan. And no matter how many times she offers, do not ever let her pay for you in public! You will for sure end up in the forever friend zone. (Ex. if you are out with a goddess and her girlfriends, you must take care of all of them, not just her!) This may be a cultural thing and many of you may disagree with me. But the way I was brought up is that the titan always pays. It does not matter if he is a family member, friend, or business associate young or old, he pays when out in public with a female. It makes him look good, but it also shows that he respects the female he is with.

Kindness: It is not about how kind you are to the goddess you are with, but also how you treat those around you, and that includes your family, your friends, your co-workers, children, plants and animals!

Intelligence: Need I say more? You have to be intelligent to keep a Taurus goddess interested in you!

Security: A Taurus goddess is very capable of taking care of herself financially, but she likes to be pampered and protected. Knowing that you are good with finances and that you are successful in your work makes her feel comforted knowing that the future with you will be provided for should she decide to be a sexy stay at home domesticated goddess keeping everything at home tidy, comfortable, and beautiful for you and cooking you 5-star gourmet delicious meals!

Conversations: A titan who can engage in conversations of all sorts and if he is a good listener, WOW!

Model-Yogi-Healer-Taurus goddess soulmate, Christina will be back from Mykonos this Fall leading yoga and meditation sessions at my sanctuary.

Grooming: It is very attractive when a titan takes care of his appearance and health. But remember, we would not want you to spend more time in front of the mirror than we do. Keep your style powerful, polished, refined, yet relaxed depending on the occasion. But, please keep those cartoony-colorful ties, underpants, and happy socks out of her sight. They are not sexy and will turn her off forever!

Family: The Taurus goddess loves her family and is attached to them. So you must love her family as well as be close to yours.

Privacy: Taurus goddesses love our quiet intimate quality time with you. We don’t need to share you with the world. We like to know that you are ours and ours only. Others do not need to know the intimate details of our relationship.

Romance: This is almost as important as chivalry. Little acts of kindness, soft unexpected sensual touches, and simple surprises like hand-picked flowers or a voicemail or text in the middle of the day to say you miss her or thinking of her are very romantic and will make her heart melt with pleasure.

Bedroom Passion: This is last, but probably one of the most important if you want a Taurus goddess to be a forever loyal lover to you. She is sensual and loves sexual pleasure. She likes it slow, passionate, tender and intimate, yet rough and intense. She likes it real and natural. Using toys and funny looking objects will not turn her on. You must seduce, entice, and tease her with your natural masculine energy. Take the time to feel every minute of what you are experiencing with her, be present and in the moment. Be spontaneous, adventurous, go with the flow, let your heart rule when making love to her. A Taurus goddess loves a titan who knows how to take charge in the bedroom as well as outside of the bedroom. What is even sexier is when you need guidance on how to bring her pleasure, and you are not afraid to ask her to show you!

We love white and cotton sheets! Comfort luxury for sure!

Keep the bedroom simple and clean. White and cotton are sexy!

If you are currently dating or married to a Taurus goddess, consider yourself very blessed!

There is one more thing that you should know. It takes a lot to get a Taurus goddess upset because she is ruled by Venus and is naturally loving and prefers peace over war by nature. She is patient and can tolerate a lot. But if you disrespect her, we will be worse than fire, windstorm and thunder all together. She will leave you forever and never look back. She is a female bull! 🙂

 

Allow Your Heart to Grow, Virgos!

Virgos love animals and nature.

Virgos love animals and nature.

Happy belated birthday, Virgos! If you are like me and into Astrology and the Zodiac signs, then you know there is definitely some truth to that! My post today is about Virgos, both titans and goddesses. There are several reasons why I am inspired to write this post; the most important reason is for the many Virgos clients that we attract to our goddess sanctuary.

Here is a quick education about Virgos based on my personal experience with both the goddesses and titans I work with and that are in my life.

Virgo is an earth sign born between August 23 and September 22. They are generally very compatible with other Earth signs like my Taurus self and Capricorns. The water signs of Pisces and Cancers are compatible with Virgos.

Most of the Virgos in my life are very intelligent, very analytical, very organized, very detail-oriented, very practical, very efficient, very loyal, very reliable, and very hardworking. They are also sensitive, caring, kind, honest at heart, polished in mannerism, and generous. Like me, they like to take good care of their health and appearance, as well as express their love for all living things (like my Nini Love), the elderly, and the unfortunate.

All the traits above have earned Virgos respect and admiration in their careers and with their friends and family. However, when it comes to their love life, that area requires some attention and effort.

Virgos are perfectionists and are very critical of themselves and of others. It is not so easy to please them or seduce them when it comes to love. They are conservative, private, and shy with their emotions, which can make them come across as uncaring, unemotional, cold, dismissive, stand-offish, and not capable of being passionate. It takes a long time for a Virgo to trust you. They will observe you carefully and take the time to get to know you before they let you into their world. Sometimes, they don’t let you in at all!

Because of their need for structure, routine and being in control of everything, Virgos rarely let go and let loose to just live life in the moment. Their mind is always actively analyzing or thinking about improving or fixing something. This can come across as boring and predictable for those carefree, creative, and spontaneous potential romantic partners.

It seems most Virgos I know are attracted to drama because they like to solve problems and have the desire to rescue a person or situation. For this reason, if they are not self aware, they will attract romantic partners that are less than their equal, need rescuing, or some fine-tuning. Perhaps deep down inside, they are insecure and want a partner who needs them so that they can feel more confident and in control? Or it could be that they do not love and value themselves enough to know their worth and that they deserve better? This, I do not know, and maybe I never will since Virgos do not always express their inner truth and real emotions.

In my opinion, Virgos are very gentle, insightful, sensual, and passionate; rich in emotions; highly sensitive; and full of love and kindness to give to others. The biggest lesson in romance that they must learn is to simply trust and follow their hearts and not allow their over-analytical heads to take over. Most importantly, they must love themselves and know that they are worthy of a wonderful and loving partner who is their balanced equal and opposite complement. They must learn not to settle for good enough, but to only settle for great enough! There is a difference between needs and desires. When Virgos can get in touch with their higher self, they will choose partners that desire them instead of partners who need them.

If you are in a relationship with a Virgo currently or are interested in dating a Virgo, this is a good link to learn more about them: http://www.astrology-zodiac-signs.com/zodiac-signs/virgo/

I hope my dear Virgo readers do not take this post too personally. This is 100% based on my personal experiences and interactions with the ones in my life that I so admire and respect.  I love them all! I am surrounded by them in my life! The message I am trying to share here is for Virgos to allow some space for their heart to grow and explore the journey of love.

Are you a Virgo? I would love to hear you share your thoughts. Until next time.

This is how I feel about Virgos!

Here’s to you, my wonderful Virgos!